The goal of every sorority member is to find perfect new members for the sorority. But... all the sorority members dream of finding their rush crush.

Rush crush? What’s that?

A rush crush is a girl going through sorority recruitment. However, she is not any girl.

She is the It Girl.

The girl the sorority  H A S  to have.

The girl everyone is talking about. Literally  E V E R Y O N E.

The girl that is future little potential.

That’s a rush crush.


She is the it girl


For instance, you remember Troy Bolton from High School Musical. If you still don’t know who that is… it’s Zac Efron.  He was everyone’s heartthrob. He was everyone’s crush. Everyone was obsessed with him.

That’s a similar feeling sorority girls have when they meet the one. The rush crush.

It’s not weird or anything. It’s just a slight obsession. All the sorority girls have them. It becomes normality.

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Now, you might be thinking… I want to be a Rush Crush. How do I become a Rush Crush?

Well, it’s kind of difficult because when you click you just click. You know?

It’s similar to meeting your best friend.

How did you meet your best friend? You probably have something in common. 

Did you hate the same things?

Did you like the same boy?

Did you play the same sport?

You had some kind of similarity, and that similarity allowed you to click.


If I dive deep into the idea of rush crushes, there are a few similarities that all rush crushes have.

But let’s make it clear, not every girl going through recruitment is going to be a rush crush. You might be a rush crush for one sorority not all of them. You can still get into a sorority even if you are not a rush crush. Don’t stress. It's no big deal if you are or are not a rush crush. 


So let’s get into the qualities.

  1. Confidence. Confidence is key. You need to go into sorority recruitment knowing who you are. Don’t be intimidated. These girls you are meeting have gone through the same process. They have spent hours perfecting their chants and their conversation skills. Just be you. The sorority members want to meet the real you!

  2. Kindness. Kindness will get you far in life and sorority recruitment. Be kind to everyone. Being rude and b!tchy will get you nowhere. It’s not high school. Plus, it will leave you with little options because you will be released from the sororities. No sorority member wants a girl who does not want to be at their sorority. Read more about voting HERE.

  3. Connections. Connections will get you to the next round. It will allow you to see who the sorority members really are. Plus, it makes sorority recruitment fun and not stressy.

  4. Stand out from the crowd. Connections will definitely help you stand out but showing off your personality will help you stand out too. Be you. Act like you are talking to your best friends.

  5. Self-aware. You need to know what you want. Ask questions. Asking questions will clear up misconceptions and will allow you to find out more about the sorority. 


making a connection


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