LOOKING FOR FLAWS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT

LOOKING FOR FLAWS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT

It sounds easy to stay positive and keep an open mind during sorority recruitment. Right?

Imagine this. You are waiting outside your first sorority to visit. You are pumping yourself up, and you are getting excited to meet the members. 

Then, you overhear a someone gossiping. She says, “I heard this sorority sucks… you definitely don’t want to be in this sorority.” At the next sorority, you overhear, “I heard this sorority makes you do hard drugs at Bid Day.” 

All of this gossip is going to make you stop and think. Immediately, you are going to shut down and think, “OMG! I can’t be in this sorority.” 

B U T .. what if all of this gossip is L I E S . Makes you think.

STANDING OUT FROM THE CROWD DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT

STANDING OUT FROM THE CROWD DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT

Standing out from the crowd can be hard during sorority recruitment.

Why?

All the potential new members are letting the sorority members run the conversations.

It’s okay to let them run the conversation. The members will have a list of questions for you to answer. They will try and form a connection with you... but it will be hard to stand out. Like really hard.

Why?

Everyone is talking about the same thing. How are the members going to know to invite you back when they just had the exact conversation with 20 other girls?

WHAT IF YOU ONLY CONNECT WITH CERTAIN MEMBERS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT?

WHAT IF YOU ONLY CONNECT WITH CERTAIN MEMBERS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT?

Picture this. You go to Round One of Delta Nu, and you automatically connect with one member. It’s basically like you are soul sisters.

The whole day you cannot get Delta Nu out of your head. It’s definitely your #1 sorority.

The next day you are so excited to go back to Delta Nu! However, you don’t connect with the members. They are not like the first girl you met. You start to doubt yourself. You think, “Is Delta Nu the right sorority for me? Should I drop them?”

This situation is really hard. You connect with some of the sorority sisters, but you don’t connect with all of them.

Guess what… this is normal.

SHOULD YOU BECOME FRIENDS WITH THE OTHER GIRLS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT?

SHOULD YOU BECOME FRIENDS WITH THE OTHER GIRLS DURING SORORITY RECRUITMENT?

Should you become friends with the other girls during sorority recruitment?

There are two ways to look at the other girls.

  1. The Enemy

  2. Friends

Do you know which way will help you succeed?

Looking at everyone as a friend.

By alienating yourself, you are only hurting yourself. You will be stuck in your thoughts. You will be over analyzing everything. You might even think another girl “stole” your spot.

Spoiler. She didn’t she just made better connections with the members.

OUTFIT GUIDE #9 FOR SORORITY RECRUITMENT

OUTFIT GUIDE #9 FOR SORORITY RECRUITMENT

First impressions play a major part in your sorority recruitment score. You need to look and feel your very best.

B U T it does not stop there… you need to show off your personality and make connections with the sorority members. One great way to show off your personality is your personal style. Your personal style is how you will stand out from the crowd. It’s how the sorority members will get to know you a little better. You cannot just wear Lily Pulitzer and expect to get into a sorority.